Friday, July 27, 2018

Last email... :( See you next week!

Malo e lelei!!!

What a bitter sweet opportunity this is to write my last email. I cannot believe the time has come for me to finish my mission! I just love being a missionary. This week was a really great week! Monday we left for Vava'u to have our zone conference. It was a really great conference! It was sad because it was my last time to be in Vava'u and my last time to see the missionaries serving there. After the conference we went out to the outer islands and it was so fun because from July to November its whale watching season and so we were able to see so many whales! They came right up to the boat and it was the coolest thing to see! They were huge! Wednesday we came back to Tonga and then Thursday morning we went to Ha'apai. While we were there we went on trade off's with the sisters and I was able to go to Faleloa a village in Ha'apai and work with the sisters. It was really fun! Today we have a baptism and im so happy for our investigator. Her name is Vesilii and she will be baptized this afternoon. We are so excited for her! 

This week while studying my scriptures I was reading in 1 Nephi 20 and I want to share something I learned from verse 10  "For, behold, have refined thee, have chosen thee in the 
furnace of affliction. " While reading I was also studying in a Book of Mormon study guide about this verse and it talked about how afflictions refine and purify each and every one of us if we let them. I thought about this scripture and thought about everything I've learned on my mission. I have learned  and progressed because of the "afflictions" I have been faced with, because of the hard I was able to know and learn the good, and it helped strengthen my testimony. 
Im so grateful for the time I've had to be a missionary! At the beginning of my mission I didnt think I would be able to make it this far. hahah!  But im so grateful for my mission. I'm grateful for the opportunity I've had to be a missionary in Tonga to not only strengthen my testimony but to come to love these people as my family, to learn from them, to help them, and to create forever relationships with them. 

'Oku ou ilo fakapapau ta'eveiveiua ko Sisuu ko e Kalaisi ia pea 'oku Ne mo'ui. 'Oku ou 'ilo fakapapau  'oku 'ofa 'a e Tamai Hevani ki he'ene fanau kotoa pe. 'Oku Ne 'ilo'i kitautolu fakafo'ituitui pea ko 'ene finangalo ke tau fiefia. 'Oku' i ai ha 'amanaki lelei' i he ongoongolelei pea oku tau monu'ia ke tau ma'u 'a e 'ilo ko eni ke 'ilo'i 'oku 'i ai ha founga ke tau lava 'o fakalakalaka 'i he mo'ui ni ke toe foki 'o nofo fakataha mo 'etau Tamai Hevani. 'Oku ou 'ilo fakapapau ko e Tohi 'a Molomona ko ha fakamo'oni 'e taha 'o Sisuu Kalaisi. Ko e founga lelei taha ke tau vaa ofiange mo 'etau Tamai Hevani kapau 'oku tau lau ia faka'aho. 'Oku lava 'a e Tohi 'a Molomona ke hoko 'o hangee ko ha kapasa ki he'etau mo'ui ke tokoni'i kitautolu ke tau lava 'o ikuna'i 'a e ngaahi faingata'a 'oku tau fehangahangai moia. 'Oku ou ma'u ha loto hounga'ia keu hoko ko ha memipa 'i he ongoongolelei 'o Sisuu Kalaisi pea kou fakamalo ki he faingamalie na'a ku ma'u ke hoko ko ha me'a ngaue 'i he to'ukupu 'o e Tamai Hevani ke tokoni'i 'ene fanau ke nau ha'u kiate ia. 'Oku ou ma'u ha 'ofa lahi ki he kakai Tonga :) 'E faingata'a kiate au keu mavahe mei heni pea 'e 'ikai ke lava ke ngalo 'iate au 'eku famili 'i heni mo e ngaahi tokoni na'a nau lava 'o fakahoko mai kiate au :) I LOVE Tonga and I am so grateful for everything I have learned here! 

I hope you all have a great week! Read you scriptures, go to church, and invite someone to come unto Christ :) I will see you all next week!! Ofa lahi atu!!! 


On our way to Ha'apai and Vava'u





Vesilii's Baptism  :)

-- 
Sista Silivesita

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Always remember him, because he remembers you. :)

Malo e lelei!!!!

Kou fiefia he faingamalie ko eni oku ou ma'u keu fai ha ki'i tohi atu he ahoni. :) I cant believe I only have two more p-days after today to email you guys.  I want to share a little experience with you guys. At the beginning of this transfer I prayed to Heavenly Father and told him I will do everything I can to give him my all. I want nothing more then to finish strong and not waste one minute. I knew how busy this transfer was going to be with zone conferences and meetings, so I was a little worried I wasn't going to have much time to work in our area.  This week we were supposed to be in Vava'u and Ha'apai but plans were changed and Zone conferences start next week so this week we had so much time to work in our area! We had a program this week and we got about 7 new investigators. It was a miracle! One of the wards i'm has struggled with missionary work but this week they totally changed and planned programs and brought people for us to teach. Also, almost all of the new investigators accepted to come to church this Sunday and then continue the lessons next week.! We are so excited! But the best thing that happened this week is we were able to invite our investigator Vesili to be baptized and she said yes!  Vesili has diabetes and she has lost both of her legs so she is in a wheelchair.  She is really strong in the Weslyan church. She didn't really like us the first time we met with her. We shared a message with her about families and asked to read the first lesson pamphlet.  We asked her if it would be okay to come back again and she wasn't really okay with it but she said yes. When we came back she told us that she read the pamphlet and she loved reading about the family. Both of her parents died and she's just had a really rough life. She reminds me of aunt Tracy because she has diabetes and and has had some hard health challenges that she has had to face with. Reading about the family really made her feel good and so we taught the plan of salvation and told her that she will have a chance to see her parents again, if she is baptized. We invited her to be baptized and she didn't even hesitate. She wants to be baptized!! Yay! July 28 Vesili will have the opportunity to enter the waters of baptism :) 
It was a good week! I learned a lot this week! We were able to do two exchanges with the STL's in the mission and I was able to work with sis Egan one last time :)  Theres a new sister here who is just really struggling  with being homesick and dealing with adjusting to the mission. It brought me right back to when I first came in. I know exactly how she is feeling and I was able to share with her that she is not alone. Not only does she have us missionaries and President and Sister Tuione, but she has the Savior who knows everything she is feeling. It was a great reminder to me that we are never alone! Our savior knows everything we feel and are going through!  Always remember Him! I love you all have a great week :) Ofa lahi atu!!!

--
Sista Silivesita


Our time in Uta

Tonga!  One of my favorite members. :)

Sunday, July 8, 2018

Malo e lelei!!


Malo e lelei!!

This week was a good week!  Not too much happened. We did have our MLC this Thursday and Friday and it was so fun! I was a little sad because it was my last MLC, and MLC is one of my favorite meetings because we get to meet with all of the mission leaders and see what we can do to lift the mission. President and Sister Tuione had me bare my testimony and of course I cried. hahah!  Im starting to say oh this is my last meeting, or this is my last time doing this, and it makes me so sad! I honestly love being a missionary. Thursday all of the mission leaders came from the outer islands and we started our MLC off with an activity night. We did a lot of team building games and then we did a "feiumu" for our meeting on Friday. Friday we met almost the whole day and then had another activity the night before the missionaries went back to the islands. It was probably one of the funnest MLC meetings we've had. 
Anyways, MLC was probably the most exciting thing this week! The work in this area is still moving forward but we dont have anyone to teach right now. We are still working with our members to go find us some investigators. But I have hope that this next week we will find new investigators and have some teaching appointments. 
Sorry this email is short, not too much to share! I hope you all have a great week! Ofa lahi atu!!!


-- 
Sista Silivesita


Friday, June 29, 2018

We all have a "today" to live, and the key to making our day successful is to be willing to sacrifice.


Malo e lelei!

Man what a week! This week was probably one of the busiest most stressful weeks of my mission, hahah but it was still a good week!  We had transfers on Monday and im staying again in Matangiake with Sis. Paletu'a.  :) Yay!  Although I've been in this area forever I was really wanting to finish from here. Anyway, on Wednesday we welcomed the new missionaries and it was really fun because I got to welcome a new palangi sister to the mission. Her name is Sister Foster and shes so cute! Shes from Utah and when I met her it took me right back to when I came here and everything I went through so I was able to share with her everything and tell her that its going to be okay!  :)  Wednesday and Thursday we did orientation with the new missionaries and took them to their new area's and finally on Friday we had the opportunity to visit our members in our area. It was a good week but a lot of late nights and early mornings transferring missionaries. 
Wednesday was awesome because I got to see Joel and his daughter Laurel. (Joel Tuilava lives in our ward and was Kenidee's sunday school teacher. They are in Tonga for a big family reunion.)  Man it felt so good to see them!  I got to speak some Tongan with Joel and tell him how much I just love Tonga!  :) 
This week we had the opportunity to meet with one of our less active members her name is Daisy. We've been working with her for awhile and shes progressing really well. This week we talked with her about one of the conference talks she read called "One more Day" by Taylor G. Godoy. Man its a great talk! When talking about it with Daisy she shared with us goals that she had made from reading this talk to help her live everyday like its her last. What things she would do to help her be more spiritually and physically prepared to meet our Heavenly Father. The talk talks a lot about living a life of sacrifice. Personal Sacrifice and Sacrifices for others. We all have the blessing of the atonement in our lives. We all have the opportunity to make our selves better each day because of the sacrifice our Savior Jesus Christ made for us. EVERYDAY we need to be bettering ourselves through Christ's atonement and helping others do the same. The best way to prepare to meet God is to repent and serve others. Theres a quote by Howard W. Hunter in the talk we read and we committed Dasiy to live by it....and it says:  “Mend a quarrel. Seek out a forgotten friend. Dismiss 
suspicon and replace it with trust. … Give a soft answer. 
Encourage youth. Manifest your loyalty in word and deed. 
Keep a promise. Forgo a grudge. Forgive an enemy. 
Apologize. Try to understand. Examine your demands on 
others. Think first of someone else. Be kind. Be gentle. 
Laugh a little more. Express your gratitude. Welcome a stranger. Gladden the heart of a child. Speak your love and then speak it again”
I Invite all of you to first read this talk and second commit yourselves to live by the words of President Howard W. Hunter.
I have a testimony of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. I know he died for my Sins and for yours. The least we can do is try our best to repent everyday and become more like him. We need to first love our savior Jesus Christ and then love our neighbors. Serve them and help them draw closer to God. Ofa lahi atu! Have a good week :) 
-- 
Sista Silivesita


 Seeing Joel and Laurel :) 


Friday, June 22, 2018

Last Transfer


Malo e lelei!

Man what a week! This week we were so busy with missionaries leaving, activities, and also this morning we had a baptism :) It was awesome! It was a great way to start off the day. We baptized our investigator her name is Kusa. We've been teaching her for awhile now and this morning we had the opportunity to see her enter into the waters of baptism. Her family is really strong in  weselyan church, but she has read the Book of Mormon and gained a testimony and decided to be baptized. 
Like I said this week we were really busy with the kau osi. On Thursday we had their last devotional with them and we had umu for dinner. Its the most original tongan meal. We made luu and we had manioke, sipi (lamb), kumala (sweet potato), ota ika (raw fish), and otai meleni (a watermelon drink). We spent Thursday doing the feiumu getting everything ready for them. It was a really great devotional but it was sad to see them all go. Friday we had a temple session with them and then we took them to the airport. It was so weird because the next time we go to the airport with he kau osi, I will be a part of it. Ahhhh! I cant believe that I only have one transfer left. We have the transfer call tomorrow so im not sure if I will stay and finish from here or if I will go to a new area. I guess we will see tomorrow! 
Anyways we had a really cool experience these past couple of weeks. There is a less active family in our area and we've been working whith  them for awhile. The husband used to live in Utah and his son actually played football at Brighton but now plays football at East. Anyways ever since ive been here they have not come to church. They used to go to church in Havelu and claim that they still go there. Well we visit them a lot and always invite them to church but these past couple of months we havent had the opportunity to go see them because of the situation they are in. They are into really hard drugs and they fight all the time. And so sometimes we are just not able to go over there because of that. Well this past week we were out visiting the member's and I just felt so strongly to go to their house. I told comp we should go and when we went there the lady was there sitting by herself in their house. We talked with her and  shared a spiritual thought with her. Before we got up to leave she shared with us the situation her and her husband are in and how she wants to make a change in her life. The night before we came they had just gotten in a big fight and she was just feeling like she didnt want to be here anymore.  When she was sitting on her couch thinking of what she was going to do she heard us call her name from outside and she knew it was an answer to her prayers. We talked with her and gave her a commitment to read in the Book of Mormon. She came to church last week and you can just see a difference in her. We are still working with her and we know she will be an example to her husband. Im so glad I listened to the spirit and we went to her house to see her. I shared with her the scripture in 2 Nephi 27:23 about God being a God of miracles. God is still performing miracles but its according to our faith the blessings and miracles we will receive. 
I  hope you all have a good week. Read your Book of Mormon. Ofa lahi atu!
-- 

Sista Silivesita


Kusa's Baptism :)

This was us doing the feiumu for the missionaires who were leaving. 

Making Otai meleni.  Man its so good i cant wait to make it for you guys when i get home!

Getting the "luu" leaves ready 


This is Bother Tuilavas Sister, ( Brother Tuilava is in our ward and he was her Sunday school teacher) I met her at the airport


This is Junior my FAVORITE boy ever. He lives in the area im in and any time hes sees me he'll run up and hug me and then ask how im doing. 

Vilo with the Vava'u STL's 


Saturday, June 16, 2018

Malo e lelei :)

Malo e lelei!

Man its been awhile since I've been able to email and I feel like I have so much to tell you...hahah.  Last week we had the opportunity to go to the Ha'afeva conference with President and Sister Tuione and the office crew. Man it was so fun! Ha'afeva is a smaller island off of Ha'apai and they are yet to be a stake. They are just a little district so President is the one who looks over them so we all got to go last weekend. It was such a cool experience!  Around Ha'afeva there are little islands where people live and they are also part of the district so they all came to Ha'afeva to join the conference. Friday of last week we all got on the boat to go to Ha'afeva. Its a new boat called the Tongiaki and every week it makes its round to all of the outer islands. It was my first time to ever take a boat to the outer islands because we usually fly, but I did pretty good. Everyone was telling me to prepare myself because most people get sick, but I was okay! There was however a lot of people on the boat who got really sick. On our way out to Ha'afeva the water was not very good so it was kind of a rough ride!  Anyway, we stopped by nomuka, another outer island, to pick up the elders serving there so they could come join the conference. When we got to Ha'afeva the boat was not able to pull up to the dock so we stopped in the middle of the ocean and the smaller boat came to pick us up. We had to get off from the big boat and jump off to the smaller boat. And the water was not good so it was a struggle. But we all made it! 

Ha'afeva is this small little island. Theres only one road and the chapel is like right in the middle of it. On one side of the chapel they are mostly members and on the other side they are all non members. Theres really not much to do there other than just sit and hang out, or go swimming. But we cant go swimming so we just spent time hanging out with the members. The conference was Saturday and Sunday and it was a really good conference. It was so cool to see the gospel being taught and shared on this little island in the middle of the ocean. The members there are so faithful and they are trying their best everyday to live the Gospel and share it with others. It was a really humbling experience for me. It was another testimony to me of how great the gospel is. We are so lucky to be members of the church! 

Monday morning it rained like crazy so we didnt think we would make it home but when it was time to get on the boat it was such a clear nice day! We made it home that night and the water was great so no one was sick. SO probably my favorite part of this little trip was Monday morning. Sunday night at midnight some of the members left and got on their boats to go fishing. They went out all night and didnt get back until early Monday morning. Around 8 Monday morning we were told to go down by the beach and eat ota ika (Raw fish). When we got there they were all just sitting in the ocean in their clothes, raw fish in one hand and manioke in the other and they were eating and laughing and just having fun. It was so different to see but it was so cool! All of us missionaries just sat on the side watching them and we just ate on the sand hahah but it was so fun! They also brought this big cooler over and it had dog in it for us to eat. Hahah, it was something ive never experienced before but it was so fun! They also came back with two big turtles and a shark. The Tongan people just know how to have fun, and i love it! 

We also got to experience two baptisms while we were there. The work is going so good! I love being a missionary. I read this week in Alma chapter 32 about faith. I want to ask you all to read Alma chapter 32 talking about the word of God and faith. We can do all things when we have faith in God. I love you all!  Have a good week! 
Ofa lahi atu!
-- 

Sista Silivesita



Okay so Sister Tuioni (Kens Mission presidents wife ðŸ˜‚) actually pushed me in the water  hahaha!  So I sat in the water with all of them even though I was all dressed and ready to go. But im not complaining....It was so fun to be in the ocean!



















The dog they brought over for us to eat.


The Baptism :)






Friday, June 1, 2018

Love the Lord Because he Loved you First ....


Malo e lelei! 

This week was a really great week! Wednesday we had mission tour here in Tongatapu with Elder Adern and it was great. He is such a cool guy! We had MLC Wednesday morning with him and his wife and then a meeting with him and all of the missionaries Wednesday evening. Thursday my companion and I flew with President and sister Tuione and Elder and Sister Adern to vava'u and there we had a meeting with the vava'u and ha'apai missionaries. It was two days of meetings but I learned so much and I feel like everything he shared was exactly what I needed to hear. My compaion and I also had the opportunity on Friday to go visit all of of the sisters in Vava'u and Ha'apai and see what we can do to help them in their work. It was a week full of learning and teaching and I feel like I progressed so much in just a couple of days. 
The work here is good. We've had a couple of baptisms dates set but a lot of them have fallen through. We had one of our investigators move without telling us and we are so sad. I think I talked about her in my last email but her name is Ana and she had so many questions and was so interested in the church and so we were so surprised when she moved. We are still praying that we can get in contact with her and continue teaching her. 
We also had a baptism set for today but that investigator moved too! So we are a little sad. But the work is still moving here. One of our wards is doing so good with missionary work. They are all working together and are really motivated to find someone for us to teach. We are struggling a bit with our other ward. They arent as motivated to do missionary work but we are thinking and praying for programs and activities to help the members get involved in missionary work. But I think we got our answer this week from the mission tour so we are excited to put it to work! 
Something I learned from MLC was the importance of being a leader. Ive been in this position for quite awhile now but im still learning everyday. Im not perfect and I have a lot to work on but President talked about the importance of believing in yourself. I was really excited to go to vava'u this week and spend some time with the sisters. One thing I wanted them to know is how much I love them and how proud I am of them for the work they are doing. I have the opportunity to be a representative of Jesus Christ. In everything I do I need to represent Him the best I can. I think love is one of the best ways to help someone when they are struggling or when they want to make a change. President always shares a quote he says...."They dont care how much you know, until they know how much you care." Its so true! We can become true disciples of Jesus Christ when we have the pure love of Christ for those around us. 
Elder Adern talked a lot about the importance of increasing our faith in Jesus Christ. The best way to increase your faith in Jesus Christ is to get to know him personally. Sometimes we come to know our Savior through His atonement and the blessing we have of repentance, but we can also come to know Him through studying His life and His plan. I say it every week but continue to read your scriptures! Study the life and the words of the Savior and you will come to know Him and He will be your Best friend. I know He lives and He Loves us! Another quote President Tuione always says is..."I love the Lord because He Loved me First." He loves you! So do all you can to become more like Him and love Him with all your heart might, mind, and strength! I hope you all have a great week! Remember who you are :) Ofa lahi atu!

1. We have cake and ice cream at our members house every Sunday. Their names are Feinga and Anau. Feinga is the one who carved my maui hook I sent home to you. Hes so good at carving things and this is a chair he made that they keep at their house. My companion and I were laughing because we thought we could both fit in the chair but we didnt....hahaha 





-- 
Sista Silivesita